Honey…I just don’t understand you! Everyone says it, nobody gets its! How many times have you said or heard couples or even therapists saying how communication in a relationship is key? A million times I suppose. What if I told you communication is rarely if not ever the problem people face in relationships. Would you be surprised? Confused? Intrigued? Angry?
Where did my libido go? The routine that kills! We all know it, sexual routine tends to kill desire. After a few years, we get tired of having sex with the same person, the same way & being able to predict the next move from your partner. We all know the mantra: «We must add variety to our
What brings out the worst in people What can having an affair mean about a relationship In my last article, we talked about learning from an infidelity, which looked at understanding what had brought on the affair in the first place and how it was related to the relationship. When you take the time to question yourself
How to grow from an infidelity The deep trauma of infidelity No one wants to experience infidelity from their partner. The hurt feelings, the betrayal, the hate, the resentment, the unanswered questions, the feeling of being undesirable in their eyes, the competitiveness from the other partner. Nothing from infidelity seems to be positive and the first thing we want to
Put An End to the Suffering Jealousy is an emotion which we do not control, but that we have the power to manage. Some people have excessive jealousy that has important impacts in their different relationships whether they be professional, social, friendly or sexual. On the other hand, some only have issues in one of theses types of relationships.
Importance of defining fidelity in your couple Fidelity is defined as the respect of an agreement with another person. In most loving relationships, there exist a form of fidelity between partners, even in polyamory. Although, what one person thinks is adultery, the other person might not, as the confines of fidelity are wide and large. We can even change our
What is jealousy? Jealousy is define as an emotion that makes the person suffer when they are afraid that they will be replaced or cheated on by their partner when they seek exclusivity from that person. It is different than envy which is an emotion that demonstrates lust for someone else’s happiness. In other words, jealousy is the fear of
One giant leap backwards for female sexuality… Women are perceived as the problem There exist numerous reasons as to why a person would have a lower sexual desire in a relationship. They are actually multiple in most cases and they necessitate a variety of interventions to find a solution to the situation. For a long time now, we have categorized
Preview for the upcoming season Introduction video Subjects for this years webseries Jealousy Infidelity & fidelity Different dynamics in sexuality Various couples statuses: polyamourous, open couples, swingers, monogamist, etc. Different types of sexual desire What happens in you head when you are having sex with a partner?Bisexuality and sexual fluiditylack of communication in couples Subscribe to our mailing list to
Continuing education is a requirement by the «Ordre Professionnel des Sexologues du Québec» (OPQS) and of the «Ordre des Psychologues du Québec» (OPQ) to maintain a permit for a sexologist and psychotherapist. Crucible Institute (David Schnarch & Ruth Morehouse) Praticuum Sexual Crucible